July 24, 2014

The Christian and the Mental Illness V: The Church and the Mentally Ill

What is the church’s responsibility to the mentally ill? I have concluded that mental illness, despite the potential baggage of the worldview of psychology, is inherently a truthful enough category to be useful in describing a phenomenon in the real world. While there are very controversial and ongoing conversations regarding the Biblical analysis of mental illness and the interpretation of Biblical passages about mental illness, we cannot reasonably deny that mental illness, as a human experience understood today in the language of medical diagnosis, did exist in the Bible and is all around us today.

The mentally and emotionally ill are part of every church. They make up part of the body of Christ. They are persons baptized, professing faith, participating in fellowship, worship and ministry. They are ministers, teachers and pastors. They are the fathers, mothers, young adults, college students and singles in our churches. At times they are our children. Certainly they are part of the community every church seeks to reach.

Churches that choose to ignore mental illness are making the decision to deny a valid part of the human story. The church tradition that I grew up in had no categories for dealing with mental illness. My father’s depression simply wasn’t allowable in the concept of the church that was nurtured among us. Virtually no one in our church would have felt it was possible to admit to mental illness without enormous stigma. The behaviors and struggles of the mentally ill were interpreted through other grids, from spiritual warfare to personal blame to contamination by worldly influences.

Such phrases as “the victorious Christian life” and “the spirit-filled life” led to simplistic psychologies that made any mental or emotional illness seem quickly “fixable” by prayer, scripture memory and church attendance. As I refect back on my early years in church, it is plain to me now that many of the mentally and emotionally ill in our church did not seek any kind of help, but populated the altar at almost every invitation. Our pastor, who was completely untrained in these matters, dealt with these people as best he could.

Later on, I was serving in a church in a large urban center, among a congregation that was much more open about understanding and accepting mental illness as a reality. Even with many “referring relationships” to the those providing medical and psychological help, our pastor- a very gifted and empathetic man whose preaching reached to the emotions of the congregtion- was overwhelmed with “needy,” emotionally hurting people. There were often hazards in our ministry there caused by the complexity of working with mentally and emotionally disturbed people who expected ministerial staff to be able to help those with severe emotional disability.

Of course, for 14 years I have been face to face with emotional illness on a daily basis. Though our school does not work with “actively” mentally ill persons, we work with many who have “psych” diagnoses and histories. Because we are a Christian community, our staff have differing beliefs about the best way to respond to the needs of our students who have issues in this area. For example, the subject of psychiatric medication is quite controversial, and the topic of ADHD will always rouse debate.

Iit is in this environment, however, that I believe I have glimpsed the truth of the Church and mental illness most clearly. My early experience of institutional fundamentalism was unable to cope with the reality of mental illness, but today I look at examples such as Henri Nouwen as signs of Christ moving toward the mentally ill; including them and ministering with them as a sign of the presence of the Kingdom of God.

Nouwen left ministry at Harvard in order to spend the closing chapter of his life at a community for the mentally and physically handicapped, serving and leading worship for the last, least, little, lost and dying (to use Robert Capon’s list of those Jesus ministered to.) I believe Nouwen did this in order to truly experience the church as the people of God seeking to follow Christ in an imitation of Christ himself. In Nouwen’s sacramental tradition as a Roman Catholic, there was a strong sense of the presence of Christ in the Eucharist, and the handicaps of those in the Le Arche community provided no barrier to the power of that divine presence.

Those of us who conceive of the church in less sacramentarian terms- but still rejecting transactionalism- can still understand the presence of Christ among the mentally and emotionally ill. That presence comes as Christ is incarnated in his people, in the Word and in the sacraments. The acceptable year of the Lord is declared among people like this, and God would them in our midst.

Can the mentally ill receive God’s word? Can they participate in the life of the church? But are there limits that must be respected? The answer to all those questions is “Yes.” While there are places in the life of the church where emotional and mental illness would mean some limitations or boundaries, the heart of the life of the church- fellowship, worship, communion, service, celebration, love- should intentionally include the mentally ill.

The presence of the sick, the poor and the mentally ill are important reminders of Jesus and his ministry in the Gospels. We cannot make the church a museum of “bright, shiny” people or “catalog model” teenagers and call ourselves the same movement that flowed from the ministry of Jesus. Mark’s summaries of the Galilean ministry of Jesus make it clear that those we would call the mentally ill were there in large numbers. This would not have been convenient, but it was of the essence of Jesus’ inclusion.

The church of Jesus Christ should create- or recreate- itself into a form that includes the broken, the sick and the mentally ill. We should be careful that what belongs to Jesus does not come to resemble a country club. This is a serious argument for some of the kinds of “house” church structures that the emerging church is revisiting. It is a serious critique of the kind of image making many seeker churches pursue.

One other question: What about mental illness and ministry? This is a sensitive topic, because many of those in scripture who are emotional and given to depression or emotional outbursts are prophets of God. The Bible talks about family, marital and personal stability as a qualification for ministry. It seems undeniable that the shepherd cannot shepherd the sheep if he or she is too depressed to speak the truth, love the congregation or feed the sheep.

Mental and emotional illness, however, are not a simple “downers” or crippling instabilities. Many emotionally ill persons function at high levels. It would be foolish to say “Johnny has emotional instability, therefore he cannot serve or lead.” Why? Because such issues are usually not life-dominating. The question is, “How does Johnny live with mental illness? Responsibly or irresponsibly?”

In many cases, these afflictions have benefits as well as dark sides. (Again, Lincoln is an example.) Relentless cheerfulness and glib insensitivity to pain are not blessings in a minister. A sense of the darker side of life and the reality of pain and brokenness are windows of compassion. Those who read a book like Lloyd-Jones “Spiritual Depression” know they are reading someone who has seen the dark valleys of depressions he seeks to lead the sheep through.

I have experienced this balance in my own life. I have struggled with serious depression and severe, paralyzing anger in my own life. At times, these afflictions have hampered my preaching and my leadership, and wounded my family. Yet my family has experienced profound healing. My marriage has deeper strength than most we know. Others see and affirm this. My relationship with my family and my congregation have enhanced the person I am when I stand in leadership and ministry.

These emotional struggles have also made me more willing to share my own life’s struggles with my people- and they unanimously appreciate this and realize that I stand and speak only because of times I have knelt and wept to Jesus. I have been more open for prayer from others. I have taught the value of our own stories. I have an emotional window into the experience of Jesus in dark times, and into his own compassionate ministry. My reading of the Bible is deeper, especially as I read the Psalms. I believe I can enter into the experiences of hurting parents and depressed church members as a shepherd and as a sheep.

As I have written elsewhere, full-time church ministry as amplified some of my own struggles and problems. Looking back, I wish that bi-vocational ministry had been an option in my early years, just as I wish someone had explained depression to me when my father was suffering with it. But I have never been told by any church leader or church member that I was a poor shepherd or a fraudulent minister. I’ve experienced a deep love from my congregations, and I rejoice that some of my struggles have enabled me to stand before them as a person deeply touched by Jesus. My repentance with my family is great, and my appreciation for the grace of God is not academic, but real and personal.

Ministering to and with the mentally ill requires much love and discernment. It is important that ministers and laypersons do all they can to understand mental illness with the best insights of contemporary science and medicine. It is an important witness when we embrace those Jesus embraced, and include those he included. This is why the mentally ill can be a gift to the church, and a continuing opportunity to discover Jesus in those in whom he mysteriously meets us.

Now we move on to the final question: What does the Gospel say to the mentally ill?

Comments

  1. wonderingaboutthings says:

    I wept reading your articles, it really touched a nerve. I dealt with some of the same issues with family members. It takes real courage to share this stuff. I am often very reluctant to share such things as the motives are often misunderstood. You helped me a great Deal. May God bless you.

  2. christine sanders says:

    Hi,
    Over 3 months ago I began to facilitate the onset of “Mended Soul” ministies, an outreach of Christian Victory Church which serves the mentally & emotionally afflicted.
    We hold ongoing meetings every Monday evening from 6:30-8 pm. I was blessed by your expression towards the need for this outreach. I, myself have a daughter who has struggled extensively with schizophrenia, & whom, by the way has attended the meetings without fail.
    The group is very diversified, ranging from those who suffer from bi-polar to schizophrenia to clinical depression. I have come to truly love this group of people who at different levels have come to share their personal struggles along with the hope & comfort that they find in Christ. I am deeply touched by the manner in which each is accepting of others, willing to share coping skills without being judgmental. My prayer is that many who have the need for such ministry will be willing to come forward & receive the help they need. May the Lord richly bless you & all that you do,
    Affectionately, Christine Sanders

  3. Tina Cattani says:

    If Christine Sanders happens to read this…I have been trying to minister to a mentally challenged individual for about 1 1/2 years now. He was saved a short time ago and has been baptized but I have been unable to figure out how to work with him behaviorially and received no support from my church. Until recently I was a lone ranger in trying to help him. I have no experience in these matters accept for having suffered severe depression for a season in my own life. Does anyone have any resources, books, or any of the like I can use to educate myself to help this young man reach his full potential in Christ without judging him. How can I learn what he can and what he cannot do? He is highly intelligent and comes with master manipulation be/c it has worked in time past for him. I have figured out a lot of it but I don’t want to cross the line on thinking he can do something he will never be able to do with regard to changing certain parts of his behavior. I want to love and help him, not condemn and judge him but I am having a hard time figuring out what can and cannot be controlled. He also has tourette’s which I don’t know if that has anything to do with the mental part as well. Can anyone help with any resources I might be able to get my hands on. You are all so wonderful. God bless you I pray for everything you have done for the mentally ill. May God give me the grace to be able to figure out how to minister the best that I can for my little sheep. God bless you. :0) / Tina Cattani

  4. What can those of us with mentally ill family members do? My sister is mentally ill. She was embraced by a church and seemed to be doing well. Then one day she asked why there were sacrifices in the old Testament, but not in the church. I explained about the teaching that without the shedding of blood there is no remission. I also explained in great detail that Jesus was the final sacrifice, and that no further sacrifice was needed because Jesus paid the price on the cross. She seemed to understand. Then she went home and killed all her pets.
    It leaves me afraid to even talk about spiritual matters or the Bible with her. Yet she needs Jesus as much as anyone else. So what am I to do? She hasn’t attended Church in 5 or 6 years now, and blames me for what happened, still says I told her to her to do it. Its as if she does not remember any part of the conservation except for the one about the shedding of blood. No remembrance of me saying repeatedly in different ways that Jesus was our sacrifice and that is why we don’t sacrifice anymore.
    So what can be done in a situation like that?
    What can be done to present the gospel to a person who might take one verse and act on it without thinking?
    She is living now in a pit of misery and I want nothing more than to help her, but I don’t know what to do.

  5. Dianne Sanders says:

    I found this article first as I begin the journey to minister to the mentally ill. My husband and I will be holding worship at a residential facility. I am bipolar and have a heart for the mentally afflicted. Please pray for our journey, that the Lord will be glorified and the residents will experience His peace. I would appreciate any advice and ideas you may have for lesson topics and resources for literature and music. The residents have a music program and we hope that they will take an active role in the service.

    In Christ,
    Dianne Sanders
    6944 Jewell North
    Kinsman, OHIO
    44428

  6. Jesus healed ALL who believed…BELIEVED…Read The SCRIPTURES..I was told I had bipolar, had suicidal actions for years and I have been getting prayer and God’s word and am on less medication for the first time in 10 years and am healthy, able to sleep and my moods are normal..Mental illness “is” a spirit..I know two sisters in Christ who were set free from this sickness and are off their meds for several years and no relaps and have been for years…JESUS HEALED ALL WHO BELIEVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  7. Kelly Foster says:

    My former spouse is mentally ill, his parents took him away from me 12 years ago he has been calling me when I came to check up on him he had not cleaned his appartment and clothes were everywhere. He is 6’1 and is down to 112 pounds I send food over there. I like to know about Leache group home for the mentally ill. If you know anything where the one is in Mobile,al . please email me.

  8. Kelly Foster says:

    Please tell me about the foudation of Le’ache in Mobile,al. and where it is.