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	<title>Comments on: Ground Rules: Blogroll Psychology 101</title>
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	<description>...dispatches from the post-evangelical wilderness</description>
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		<title>By: Marcia</title>
		<link>http://www.internetmonk.com/archive/ground-rules-blogroll-psychology-101#comment-73985</link>
		<dc:creator>Marcia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 28 Mar 2007 18:35:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting...I never thought of blogrolling as psychology.  I have links on my blog that are mainly reciprocal; someone has linked to me, and I feel compelled to return the favor, even though I may never visit her place.

I'm getting ready to revamp, though, and only include places where I actually find value.  I'd also like to include a brief description of the blog, but I can't figure out how to do it without consuming too much space.  I just know that when I see my blog linked from somewhere, the name of it, which I picked on a whim not knowing what a big part of my life it would end up being, says nothing about what I write.

I also find some common ground in the idea that you discuss things online you never talk about IRL.  This is one of the reasons why I love the internet.

You also said, "Rejecting someone's confession of faith is a serious matter."  No kidding.  I have seen this done at another blog, and I find it unbelievable.  I mean, wow, who would have the nerve to do that?  When I spoke up, though, I was shouted down.  Me, I have enough worries about my own walk; I have no need to judge someone else's.

I appreciate your blog.  I've found it to be very educational.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting&#8230;I never thought of blogrolling as psychology.  I have links on my blog that are mainly reciprocal; someone has linked to me, and I feel compelled to return the favor, even though I may never visit her place.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m getting ready to revamp, though, and only include places where I actually find value.  I&#8217;d also like to include a brief description of the blog, but I can&#8217;t figure out how to do it without consuming too much space.  I just know that when I see my blog linked from somewhere, the name of it, which I picked on a whim not knowing what a big part of my life it would end up being, says nothing about what I write.</p>
<p>I also find some common ground in the idea that you discuss things online you never talk about IRL.  This is one of the reasons why I love the internet.</p>
<p>You also said, &#8220;Rejecting someone&#8217;s confession of faith is a serious matter.&#8221;  No kidding.  I have seen this done at another blog, and I find it unbelievable.  I mean, wow, who would have the nerve to do that?  When I spoke up, though, I was shouted down.  Me, I have enough worries about my own walk; I have no need to judge someone else&#8217;s.</p>
<p>I appreciate your blog.  I&#8217;ve found it to be very educational.</p>
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		<title>By: Scot McKnight</title>
		<link>http://www.internetmonk.com/archive/ground-rules-blogroll-psychology-101#comment-72983</link>
		<dc:creator>Scot McKnight</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Mar 2007 02:25:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Michael,

Great topic and one about which I've thought a great deal with no clarity: I link to blogs that interest me and diversity comes into play. E.g., I link to Denny Burk who differs with me on almost everything but I'm curious to see what he's saying and he's a good guy. I like to Steve McCoy because I've met him but mostly because he's a young pastor whom I admire for the challenge of pastoring a small church with a family who has a robust commitment to a theological approach to pastoring.

But, Kris uses my blogroll to read blogs and often informs me that "so and so" is not writing often enough -- remove him/her -- or some other reason. I always feel bad about removing someone so I usually just leave them on the blogroll.

Bad idea, in my judgment, to think of your blogroll of folks you endorse. I endorse Bible and the Great Orthodox Tradition.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michael,</p>
<p>Great topic and one about which I&#8217;ve thought a great deal with no clarity: I link to blogs that interest me and diversity comes into play. E.g., I link to Denny Burk who differs with me on almost everything but I&#8217;m curious to see what he&#8217;s saying and he&#8217;s a good guy. I like to Steve McCoy because I&#8217;ve met him but mostly because he&#8217;s a young pastor whom I admire for the challenge of pastoring a small church with a family who has a robust commitment to a theological approach to pastoring.</p>
<p>But, Kris uses my blogroll to read blogs and often informs me that &#8220;so and so&#8221; is not writing often enough &#8212; remove him/her &#8212; or some other reason. I always feel bad about removing someone so I usually just leave them on the blogroll.</p>
<p>Bad idea, in my judgment, to think of your blogroll of folks you endorse. I endorse Bible and the Great Orthodox Tradition.</p>
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		<title>By: Scott M</title>
		<link>http://www.internetmonk.com/archive/ground-rules-blogroll-psychology-101#comment-70563</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Mar 2007 02:16:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I tend to decide what goes in my RSS reader based on whether or not I find it helpful or interesting to read. I have a hard time imagining why I would want to continue reading something if most of my reactions to it were negative.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I tend to decide what goes in my RSS reader based on whether or not I find it helpful or interesting to read. I have a hard time imagining why I would want to continue reading something if most of my reactions to it were negative.</p>
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		<title>By: John H</title>
		<link>http://www.internetmonk.com/archive/ground-rules-blogroll-psychology-101#comment-69626</link>
		<dc:creator>John H</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 11:08:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Apologies for double-posting, but another thought that comes to mind is the different approaches people take to blogrolling. 

Example: one fairly prominent Lutheran blogger asked me to include them on my blogroll. I did so, but then at a later date removed them, simply because I didn't happen to read their site any more (only so many hours in the day, etc.). I then got a slightly wounded email from them asking why I had done this, and as a result I added them back in again.

When I moved site (*cough*, *hint*, etc :-)) last month, I finally dropped them (along with a number of other blogs) once and for all, because I decided my blogroll should consist only of sites I actually read, not just sites I vaguely approve of from a distance. I put up a post emphasising (without naming names) that exclusion was not a value judgment but simply a reflection of what I happened to read.

Others, however, prefer to have comprehensive blogrolls covering every blog that they consider to fall within a particular "class" of which they approve. I'm sure there's a place for that - it's just not on my sidebar. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Apologies for double-posting, but another thought that comes to mind is the different approaches people take to blogrolling. </p>
<p>Example: one fairly prominent Lutheran blogger asked me to include them on my blogroll. I did so, but then at a later date removed them, simply because I didn&#8217;t happen to read their site any more (only so many hours in the day, etc.). I then got a slightly wounded email from them asking why I had done this, and as a result I added them back in again.</p>
<p>When I moved site (*cough*, *hint*, etc :-)) last month, I finally dropped them (along with a number of other blogs) once and for all, because I decided my blogroll should consist only of sites I actually read, not just sites I vaguely approve of from a distance. I put up a post emphasising (without naming names) that exclusion was not a value judgment but simply a reflection of what I happened to read.</p>
<p>Others, however, prefer to have comprehensive blogrolls covering every blog that they consider to fall within a particular &#8220;class&#8221; of which they approve. I&#8217;m sure there&#8217;s a place for that - it&#8217;s just not on my sidebar. <img src='http://www.internetmonk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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		<title>By: John H</title>
		<link>http://www.internetmonk.com/archive/ground-rules-blogroll-psychology-101#comment-69608</link>
		<dc:creator>John H</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 10:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>6) And (*cough*) update your blogroll when people (*ahem*) move their blogs to a new URL. Before they start dropping unsubtle hints on the subject. :o)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>6) And (*cough*) update your blogroll when people (*ahem*) move their blogs to a new URL. Before they start dropping unsubtle hints on the subject. :o)</p>
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		<title>By: Eric Costa</title>
		<link>http://www.internetmonk.com/archive/ground-rules-blogroll-psychology-101#comment-68849</link>
		<dc:creator>Eric Costa</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2007 00:11:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I don't know if it's good or bad, but I've decided that my blogroll will only include people with whom I'm acquainted in a real-life sort of way. Sure, it creates severe limitations on the kinds of materials endorsed, but it also does away with the pressures of having to stay equipped for blogwars. I mainly do it so that people will think I'm cool for actually knowing so-and-so. :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s good or bad, but I&#8217;ve decided that my blogroll will only include people with whom I&#8217;m acquainted in a real-life sort of way. Sure, it creates severe limitations on the kinds of materials endorsed, but it also does away with the pressures of having to stay equipped for blogwars. I mainly do it so that people will think I&#8217;m cool for actually knowing so-and-so. <img src='http://www.internetmonk.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p>
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